After Bob's death, Fern chose to stay, being houseless - "If I left, it'd be like he never existed," she said, "I couldn't pack up & move on". Some who suffer from loss feel guilty about survival & regard recovery as a betrayal. The pains they cling to is an expression of loyalty. They need time with emotional support, not blame for being stubborn.
Our senses, restored, never to be the same. Whisper to us. They existed. They existed. We can be. Be, and be better. What a caterpillar calls the end, the rest of the world calls the butterfly. 生来被programmed的属性只有自视为正常与规范的人类才会问其他物种有无“并非人类的焦虑”丨设定pc到摇头马利克版克拉拉